Our youth mentoring program, Team Up, believes all youth have the potential to succeed, and caring adults can help make that happen.
Usually a parent, guardian or teacher will reach out to us requesting a mentor for a young person in their family. We match youth between the ages of 6-17 who need a positive role model in their lives with adult volunteers aged 20 and up. Youth and mentors in our program all live in the South Hampton Roads community. For more information about enrolling a child in the program, please click here.
Our mentors are carefully selected, and they want to make a positive difference in the life of their mentees. They provide one on one support and encouragement to their mentees weekly to ensure that they are consistent in their efforts. Today, we have a waiting list of more than 100 children in our community who are hoping to be matched with a caring mentor.
Having a mentor present in a young person’s life can reduce risk factors for negative behaviors. It also fosters greater communication skills and helps develop healthy and stable relationships with families, peers, caregivers and teachers. Team Up has created more than 650 mentor/mentee matches since 2008.
In 2023,
97% of youth mentees
showed positive changes in Academic Performance, Behavior, and/or Psychological & Social Behavior.
93% of our matches
were matched for a year or more or were on target to reach their one-year anniversary.
We match youth between the ages of 6-17 who need a positive role model in their lives with adult volunteers aged 20 and up.
How do youth spend time with their mentor?
Mentors and youth can decide together what they are going to do each time they meet. Some examples of activities our matches enjoy doing together include: reading a book, playing video games, listening to music, gardening, cooking, playing cards or board games, working on an arts and crafts project, fishing, bike riding, playing basketball, discussing the latest sports scene, working on the computer, writing a resume or a college application, reading online employment ads, learning a musical instrument, studying a foreign language, and discussing career options or plans for after high school.
What to expect in the match process:
Team Up follows quality guidelines and standards of excellence in mentoring. Each prospective mentor goes through a selection process in order to be chosen for this worthwhile and honored role. It includes completion of an application to become a mentor, employment reference checks, an inquiry about a mentor’s interests, character reference and a criminal background check. We also require proof of outstanding driving records and a check with the child abuse registry. These procedures begin a process to match interested individuals with youth who have enrolled in the program.
Sharon (she/her) is the Director of Youth Services at The Up Center. She oversees the Foster Care & Adoptions program as well as the Team Up youth mentoring program. She has been with The Up Center since 2005. In addition to her role as director, she currently sees Outpatient clients on a limited basis, both in person in the Ghent office and via telehealth. She is trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Therapy and TF-CBT (Trauma Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). She is a native of Hampton Roads and is dedicated to helping and giving back to her community.
Rebecca is the Supervisor for Team Up Mentoring. Becca has been with The Up Center since 2021. She finds joy in providing support to both children and volunteers, creating meaningful mentoring matches, and nurturing their growth and success.
We are committed to partnering with children, families, and communities to improve lives and outcomes through prevention, intervention, and support services.
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How do I spend time with my mentee?
Mentors and youth can decide together what they are going to do each time they meet. Some examples of activities our matches enjoy doing together include: reading a book, playing video games, listening to music, gardening, cooking, playing cards or board games, working on an arts and crafts project, fishing, bike riding, playing basketball, discussing the latest sports scene, working on the computer, writing a resume or a college application, reading online employment ads, learning a musical instrument, studying a foreign language, and discussing career options or plans for after high school.
What to expect in the match process:
Team Up follows quality guidelines and standards of excellence in mentoring. Each prospective mentor goes through a selection process in order to be chosen for this worthwhile and honored role. It includes completion of an application, employment reference checks, an inquiry about a mentor’s interests, character references and a criminal background check. We also require proof of outstanding driving records and a check with the child abuse registry. These procedures begin a process to match interested individuals with youth who are waiting for your support.
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We are committed to partnering with children, families, and communities to improve lives and outcomes through prevention, intervention, and support services.